Asking for your soul mate

Someone brought up in their journal that questions like, "What do you look for in a girl", annoy them because they are hard to answer and the answer is hard to get at.

I replied with this:

If there was a question you could ask to find the one you love you'd get a nobel. There is no question, or series of questions.

They say some puzzles look like they fit together, until you actually try it, and the edges don't quite make it.

Asking about those edges is only the first step but you will never know how things will work out unless you try to fit the pieces together.

Consider those annoying questions of theirs small talk, and we all do small talk, some are better at it then others.